Thought 4

 

Men with masculine physical features but feminine behaviour and nature should also be represented more empathetically on media. Only representing non-muscular, fat person or a „nerd“(I apologize for using these words but my vocabulary restricts me. I myself believe we should refer people who seek knowledge as "Gobstoppers" instead) as having feminine emotional qualities does not attract the „wannabe alpha male“ boys to explore their feminine side. Rather people like Andrew Tate take advantage of them by giving them a voice and expressing that he feels their pain (I don't want to vilify him either. He exists because of the faults in our system/the Matrix😂). This shit will continue to happen even long after Andrew Tate is gone. Someone else will simply fill the power vacuum „the king is dead, Long live the king“. All this happens because our young testosterone filled boys don’t feel represented. While masculine physical features are vilified on media. Which restricts them to explore their feminine side, as they keep themselves busy with defending their masculinity. 

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if for example it’s scientifically proven that our sexual experience and orgasm are positively and significantly affected by our emotional connect(which is a feminine quality) with our partner during sex. And if we propagate the lie(or the truth) that because women want more fulfilling sex, they are in increasing numbers wanting to have sex with people who they emotionally connect with. Our “wannabe alpha male” boys will rethink their decision of completely giving up on their feminine side. As I believe this is one of the major things they are after or maybe I'm mistaken and It's more complicated than that, like another reason is that they think they are victims of the society(which is unmasculine in itself, just saying) but it is true that there is some areas where they have been wronged intentionally or unintentionally by the other side. But the message might only have a slight change in their perception. They will still not be wanting to leave the dream Andrew Tate-like people are showing them. And most probably they won’t. This idea is just a battle in our struggle to bring our boys back by understanding them. I may sound like a mom here but we have to accept if one side doesn't bend a bit then no one will. The war can only be won by winning small battles(went a bit too far by comparing it to wars. Please excuse my passion). With more efforts and ideas we will surely free the boys from the sorrow they're hiding. You might be thinking that they do unacceptable things online and have developed dangerous ideas. Regarding their misogynistic views you may ask How could we even tolerate it?  my answer- we have no other choice but Compassion. If your way were right ,the boys would’ve been with us. Although your intention was right, but along the way you lost the very thing you stood for: Compassion(a feminine quality). These are tough times and we need to be patient. Peace!

Disclaimer- Not to be taken too seriously. these are just rants. could be deleted at any time.